Monday, June 8, 2009

Satisfaction or moral?

The hardest part about this writing will be giving up my privacy. I guess I'll just have to do it.

Women are complicated creatures. We can usually have whatever we want. We tease men with our sex appeal and attractive wit.
 But is it always ethical to indulge in what you can have? 
One woman may be so sexy and unbearable to a man. But is a "fling" or one night stand something that is too sexy and unbearable for a woman to refuse? Why should a woman say no to something she wants? We are living creatures with wants, needs and it is hard to hold back. Woman, or I, face this dilemma in certain circumstances. 
Mine being- you just broke up, why hold yourself back? That question is answered with another question- why do you have to get all over the place so suddenly? Can you tie off all affection for a minute? And, even so, can you tie off all affection even if it satisfying and available to you? Should we indulge in these satisfactions or do our morals kick in and hold us back from making a "mistake" with a man that we have no standards for?
I guess I am so stubborn that I must learn everything the hard way. I don't really listen to anyone but myself. That's the way it is with me.

Tuesday, May 19, 2009

Fine, I'll fess up

Watching Sex in the City continues to tease me about fashion and sex columns. Here is my seed- it's time for my writing to blossom. I know my personal experiences are nothing like Carrie Bradshaw's, but I will try to excite you as much as possible.